So as of this entry I have managed to surpass my professional blog in entries. Even sadder is the fact that I managed to do in about a month what it took me over a year to achieve with that one. Anyhow... what follows is one of the entries that I had been floating through my head during that snow storm a couple weeks ago. Enjoy.
It may just be the uniqueness of my upbringing, but there are just certain aspects of society that I just don't understand.
Before I get too far into this, perhaps I should provide some background to myself. I am the child of mixed parentage who was raised for several years of my life on a number of different Navy bases. As such I was exposed to a number of different cultures and peoples. I was brought up with the ideas that people are all equal regardless of what they look like, what they believe, or who they are attracted to.
I have never really been able to understand how something like slavery could have existed. The idea that people have ever been discriminated against based on sex, appearance or religion just blows my mind.
To the original point, it makes no sense to me that the governments (state and federal) are having such a hard time accepting the idea that some men want to marry men and some women want to marry women. Firstly, it shouldn't be up to the government in the first place as marriage is technically a religious institution. This is why christian's get married in christian churches and jews get married in jewish temples and not variations thereof. I understand that there is the need for the marriage license, but isn't that really just for census purposes anyhow? Secondly are we still so backwards a society that we can't recognize that there is no harm to our precious society if we allow gay people to marry? Maybe it has to do with where I have spent most of my years, but it seems to me that every new person I meet knows at least two or three gay people. Politicians are really only doing themselves a disservice by ignoring what is apparently quite a large segment of society.
Unless of course I am mistaken and it is either much harder to separate one's religious beliefs from your public duties as an elected official. Or maybe I just imagined reading the idea that our forefathers set down and agreed upon about the separation of church and state.
I have no issue with people's beliefs so long as they don't try and force them on other people or impede other people because they happen to disagree. The world would be a much better place if we could all just work together for the common good of the species.